Don’t be afraid to be bold.
At Art of Seduction Talk, I usually recommend subtler looks: lingerie beneath clothes, a shorter dress that shows off a little skin but still leaves you with an air of mystique. Sometimes, however, this just isn’t enough. Sometimes you just want more. If this is you, I encourage you to explore a bustier top — particularly in the warmer months.
A bustier may go hand in hand with a corset, but don’t think about that for today. Right now, we’re discussing a bustier as both a sexy lingerie piece and an everyday piece of clothing.
Imagine you’re on a date. You feel sexy; do you look the part? Chances are yes, you do. Your date is going well. He likes you. He wants you. You’re looking and acting the part, but it’s not an act. Being seductive is just who you are.
Do you want this to be you?
Then dress up and look at lingerie as more than just an accessory in your closet.
Fashion today utilizes the bustier as a trendy style in dresses and swimwear alike. Recreate that look yourself, but give it a sensual lingerie look with a real lace lingerie bustier.
Have you been eyeing a bustier dress? Choose the bustier you want, for starters. Then pick a skirt that compliments the lingerie. I recommend a high-waisted skirt that goes to about knee-length. Many bustiers come in lace or other primarily see-through material, so your legs don’t have to do much work as sex appeal here. Just a peek is enough…
Consider the strapless bustier. This is far from the most risque bustier you could find, but it’s still clearly sensual lingerie. A high-waisted pencil skirt in black would look great with this. Wear heels or leave them at home in favor of flats. Lingerie as clothing erases the need to impress with the rest of your look; the lace piece is already doing most of the work for you.
I know I’ve promised future talk of dialogue, banter, and sexy things to say to keep your man interested. Stop by next week for some quick conversation tips and other elegant ways to spice up your look.